Hello again daydreamers!
It has been a busy week and weekend and I haven’t had more than a few minutes to sit down and think about blogging. So my apologies if you were saddened by my full week hiatus! Here is a short little relationship post for you today.
Earlier last week I was browsing the internet and came across this quote and thought it really rang true.
“Don’t think too much. You’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place“.
I read this and thought this was so true, especially when talking about relationships! I can remember so many times, especially when D and I first started dating, when I would over think everything. Sometimes another girl would look at him ‘the wrong way’ and I would freak out as if he had done something awful by just sitting there. It wasn’t always events that happened, I would also over think conversations, which would then turn into arguments over nothing at all.
It was very dumb indeed! So the next time you are sitting at home with horrible thoughts swirling around your head STOP and think about this quote! If you are mulling over every detail of that phone conversation or date and picking out every issue or negative, STOP you are thinking too much!!! Think about the amazing things your bf/gf say or do everyday to show that they love you! Positive thoughts people!
I have been doing this lately and it has been working for me. I had been brewing up some negative thoughts, which would then lead to arguments and then into larger problems. I realize that now and I know that D loves me and is in it for the long hull, so no more negative thinking and more doing for this gal!
For all you over thinkings out there…Hello!!! Life is to short, stop thinking and start living, they are with you for a reason!
Oh and keep daydreaming about the positives ;)